THE SIXTH AND FINAL CORE VALUE OF A POWERFUL QUESTION APPROACH TO DISCERNMENT:

It is based on and adheres to the conceptual design and ministry developed by Dr. John Olesnavage. That dates back to John’s discovery of a Powerful Question in 1995, workshops he began conducting in 2011, his two self-published books and his soon to be released, Your Most Powerful Question, by Word Among Us Press.

Core Value Number Five

The fifth core value of a Powerful Question approach to discernment is non-judgmentalness. When a person finds their Powerful Question, and has received internal validation, they must let go of any ego driven opinion about the “rightness” of the Question. A Powerful Question that feels less than desirable or ideal, may be the door opener that is most needed. The Most Powerful Question is the one that moves us to the new person God wants us to be. That may be unsettling at first. The gift of sight will always come with the burden of seeing things we do not want to see.

Core Values Number Three and Four

A third core value of the Powerful Question discernment process involves validation. Not only is this a self-directed process, it is also self-validating. When the Powerful Question arrives it will always be accompanied by a physical and/or emotional response that is unmistakable. That happens because our body reacts to this Question, this moment of clarity and truth, the same way it does when a doctor taps our knee with a small hammer. There is an involuntary response. It can, and does arrive in many surprising ways. Some experience shortness of breath, others experience giggling sensations or goosebumps. Headaches can happen, so can a churning in our stomach. Bottom line: You will know it, and it will be all the validation you need.

The fourth core value of the Powerful Question approach to discernment is: That it is a prayerful approach to truth and God who is truth. Discernment that seeks to know truth, also seeks to know God who is truth. As such it is the very definition of prayer. Could an evil person like Hitler find a Powerful Question? No, because a person like that does not desire truth.

Core Values Number Two

The search for a Powerful Question is self-directed; even if others help you with feedback and insight; even if you follow the suggested steps. Everyone is unique and your discovery process will be what it needs to be in order to see your Question in the light of day. If you want to find it, and persist in your effort, it will appear. Trust yourself, trust that God is also involved, and He does things His way. The longer it takes is often an indication of how big its impact on your life will be.

Core Values

There are certain “Core Values” that underpin the Powerful Question approach to discernment. These are values we want to hold ourselves accountable to and expect others to judge us by.

The first of these is that it is intentional. This affirms that we are engaged in a serious, committed effort to find our purpose and our role in God’s plan. We do not want to count on falling off a horse, going blind and having an epiphany (Like St. Paul). We believe our intentional pursuit of a Powerful Question will reveal our truth, and God who is truth.

SOME PEOPLE MAY BE TROUBLED BY THE NOTION OF A SINGLE QUESTION.

Some people may be troubled by the notion of a single question having the power to transform their life. Think of a combination lock. It is capable of being programmed with many possible combinations, but only one works to open it right now.

Our Powerful Question will unlock God’s plan for us, as we can understand it right now, and it will evolve as the truth it contains unfolds.

What is the “most” powerful question we can ask?

Answer: The one embedded in our own life story, the one we truly cannot answer. It usually arrives with a jolt as it breaks through the layers of “knowing” we use surround and insulate ourselves with. It challenges and sometimes forces us to examine our life with a new lens, drawing us to the path God wants us to walk.

THE “POWER” OF A QUESTION.

When faced with a problem or dilemma, we may know the answer but still feel stuck and unable to act. Often what works is asking ourselves the question that breaks through barriers and allows us to see with new eyes.A

“Powerful Question” breaks through the biggest barrier of all, the narrative that we create to explain who and what we are. Crack that barrier and we begin to see ourselves as God does.

CAN ONE QUESTION REALLY CHANGE MY LIFE?

In the Gospel of John, Jesus could have called Andrew and Peter with a suggestion or even a command. Instead, he asked them a single question that changed their life. “What do you want?” (John 1:38) God asks each of us the same question.

We encounter questions every day. We can find answers or we can ignore them if we decide they are not important to what we want or need. There is one question however, that can’t be ignored. It comes from within. It affects us physically as well as emotionally and invites us to see ourselves as God does.

LET’S EXAMINE “LIFE STORY.”

When we say our powerful question is embedded in our life story, it’s important to examine what that means. Life story includes all the realities that we experience: birthdays, graduations, first loves, losing a friend, getting a promotion, etc.. It also includes our narrative, the story we tell ourselves about those events and what they mean to, and about, us. These narratives are foundational to what we believe about ourselves and the world we live in. Some experiences cause wounds that may keep us stuck in various stages of loss, anger, or despair. Our powerful question is not about our wounds, it is about the person who suffered and survived, wounds and all.