Memories

As we mature and age, we tend to remember people and events in fragments, especially during Thanksgiving family gatherings. We also recognize that these fragments of memory are more important to us than remembering everything.

Here’s hoping that the Thanksgiving fragments you receive, as well as those you create, are grace-filled and treasured.

Fall 2022 Retreat

This past weekend 21 people participated in the Powerful Question Retreat at the Augustine Center in Conway, Michigan. Nine of those individuals found their powerful question and eight presented on Sunday morning. It was a hard-working retreat and some said it should be a week long, not a weekend long retreat. A few participants said that it was a powerful healing event. If there was a common denominator, it would be that most were in some sort of life transition and wanting to know what God wanted next from them.

As the retreat coordinator, I was moved and humbled by the response. I felt the presence of the Holy Spirit in a profound and tangible way as evidenced by the stories we heard from participants. I cannot thank my brother Joe, and Michelle Nemer enough for their support and expert facilitation on the retreat.

Numerous next steps have emerged for the Powerful Question Institute. Most certainly there will be future retreats. Keep your eyes on the website. The next one will be announced soon. Other endeavors are under “exploration” and will be announced when ready.

Upcoming Retreat

In his September 7th general audience, Pope Francis offered the following. “There is a history that precedes one who discerns, a history that is indispensable to know, because discernment is not a sort of oracle or fatalism, or something from a laboratory, like casting one’s lot on two possibilities. The great questions arise when we have already travelled a stretch of the road in life, and it is to that journey that we must return in order to understand what we are looking for.”

With this statement, Pope Francis wrote the introduction to the Powerful Question retreat in Petoskey on October 14-16th . We will be doing just what he suggests and in doing so find the purpose we were born to serve.

There are a few openings left. But act soon before the retreat is filled.

As I drove the five hours “downstate” from my home in the Upper Peninsula I thought about the apostles and how they were sent to distant lands to preach the Gospel. They did not have modern cars or class A highways. What they did have was the fire of the Holy Spirit to keep them going. I pray that this same spirit will keep me going.

The Spirit Keeps Me Going

This past week I had the pleasure of presenting the powerful question approach to discernment to parishioners at St. Francis of Assisi parish in Traverse City, Michigan  and St. Mary’s Cathedral in Gaylord, Michigan. It also gave me a chance to remind them that the deadline for early registration for the October retreat was fast approaching. (There are still three days left to take advantage of the early bird discount)

As I drove the five hours “downstate” from my home in the Upper Peninsula I thought about the apostles and how they were sent to distant lands to preach the Gospel. They did not have modern cars or class A highways. What they did have was the fire of the Holy Spirit to keep them going. I pray that this same spirit will keep me going.

Interview

This past week I had the privilege of being interviewed by Curtis and Karen Herbert on their podcast titled The Midlife Catholic. Their theme was finding purpose, a nice fit with finding Your Most Powerful Question. I would recommend their podcast to any person of faith who wants to know what God wants of them next. I hope you check them out.

I would also note that The Word Among Us magazine recently began advertising my book, Your Most Powerful Question. Praise God!

There are still openings for the October Powerful Question retreat, but room is limited and the discount rate expires at the end of this month. Don’t miss out. Registration for this event is found right here on this web site.

If you have questions contact me at johnolesnavage@gmail.com

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Reflection and Freedom

We may talk about transformation and freedom to be who we really are, but many of us are trapped in our own life story. Don’t we even know future choices we will “probably” make (even ones we don’t like) based on that narrative? Real freedom starts with a genuine question we care deeply about and following it to the truth it reveals.

Mass Shootings

We are all made numb by the endless string of mass shootings happening across the country. We can pray that our elected leaders take meaningful steps to stop these horrible tragedies. And, there is another thing we can do. We can start asking the young, the confused and the misled what they need and want most. They live in our towns, they live next door, they live in our basements. Then, we can help them find life-giving, not life-taking answers.

Turbulent Times

I saw a headline yesterday; “Turbulent times: What to invest in.” It made me laugh because the answer should be obvious. We should be investing in ourselves. Why? Because the results will last forever. Taking my own advice, I am engaging in Fr. Michael Gaitley’s book, “33 Days to Morning Glory, a do-it-yourself retreat in preparation for Marian Consecration.” Each day has given me new insights into Mary’s grace giving power. The best part: The returns are one-hundred fold and guaranteed by the creator of all things visible and invisible. What are you investing in?

Discernment

Discernment is an adult skill, one that seeks understanding through self-reflection and divine guidance. Discerning the powerful question embedded in our own life story moves us beyond the lessons we have been taught and enables us to engage in an adult relationship with God. Isn’t that what evangelization is all about?

Critical First Step

A critical first step in finding our most powerful question is examining our life story and narrative, identifying themes and patterns. Among these is what I call our “apriori” theme. An apriori theme is one that stands out above the others and is critical to how we know ourselves. Our most powerful question is likely embedded in that theme.

Boundary (and the lack of it), was a critical “apriori” theme in my life story as a child and young adult. I never saw it as such until it emerged one day in a powerful question that shook me to the core. That is what a powerful question does.