Marcus Aurelias, Roman Emperor and stoic philosopher, is credited with the phrase: “The obstacle is the way.” But what if I am the obstacle because of my judgments and expectations?

If I can instantly see the faults in others, it means I am projecting my own faults and fears onto them. A powerful question gives me the freedom to examine my own life and see myself and others more objectively.

Pursuing my own Powerful Question leads me to understand how self-judgment is embracing my fear, not overcoming it. And, judging others keeps me separate, unconnected and isolated.